9 Signs You’re Not Ready To Get Married, According To Experts

You hope your partner will change

First of all, you should love your partner for who they really are as individuals, not for who they might become after marriage o in the future. You should accept their imperfections as well. In fact, nobody’s perfect and you know it. 

“If you are hoping that being married will change something about your significant other, you may not be ready to marry this person. Are you hoping that marriage will help your fiancé decide that he does want children, even though he insists he does not? Do you imagine that she will drink less once you marry, or that he will become more ambitious once there’s a ring on his finger? People rarely change, and fantasies that marriage will transform your beloved are usually a sign that you are not ready to marry,” said LaMotte.