Talk openly to each other even when you feel down
In general, people who have a bad day or feel down tend to keep things to themselves and build a wall around them. According to experts, when you feel down you should let the guard down and talk to your partner about your problems. In this way, you can strengthen your relationship and get to know each other better.
According to Dr. Jennifer B. Rhodes, licensed psychologist, dating coach, and the founder of relationship consultancy Rapport Relationships, real relationships are those in which you let your partner discover you even in the most unpleasant moments in life. In fact, life isn’t just about happy moments, so it is important to see how your partner reacts to various less pleasant events and to be there for them no matter what.
Put yourself in their place
Trying to put yourself in your significant other’s shoes is one of the most important things that you have to take into consideration if you want to improve your relationship and bonding experience. If you want to feel closer to him or her, you should try your best to understand their experiences from their point of view, whether or not it’s a bad experience.
In general, people tend to judge when they don’t understand something because they analyze a specific situation in the light of their own experiences. For example, people who believe that they have a strong personality and can get over a breakup quickly are more likely to judge those who cry and suffer for months or even years after a separation. But if you try to put yourself in your partner’s shoes you will truly learn to listen and understand their problems and this will lead to a stronger relationship in the long run that lasts forever.
According to Michele Hart, Esq. of M. Hart Divorce & Family Law in Morristown, New Jersey, if you want to improve your relationship, you have to put aside your own principles and values and try to understand what your significant other is saying, but from their perspective. That being said, what would you do if you were them?
Travel more together
We have to admit that traveling is one of the most relaxing and fun activities out there, not only because you are off from work and enjoy spending your time doing nothing, but you can also see a lot of new cultures and traditions or spend quality time with your partner.
According to relationship and medical experts, people who travel with their significant other are more likely to be in a healthier and happier relationship that lasts longer, because they tend to associate various positive feelings, such as fun, enjoyment, relaxation and happiness with their partner.
So, traveling together from time to time can help your bonding experience more than you think. However, you don’t have to spend a lot of money on expensive holidays just to take advantage of these benefits, but you can opt for a “staycation” as well. For instance, you can explore your own country rather than going abroad. In fact, local attractions can be as fun and relaxing as other extravagant trips.
